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This is the main
communication method you don’t concern very well.
You know well gestures
are more powerful than words. That’s
why you used your body language in first-sight in love. This is just the beginning. I explore the
deep.
When you talk with
someone normally, you use words and sentences. When you are speaking you
release words, and sentences as sound waves. Then they enter to ear; from ear
to brain;
And the brain recognizes
words and sentences. But did you know words and sentences are a small piece of
your communication? Scientists have found that you use 7% of words and sentences in communication. What happened to that 93%?
I will explain. In the
communication 38% with vocal tone.
Other 55% communicate
with body language. That’s why I am going to talk about body language.
You may also have
listened that the brain is divided into two parts.
1. Feeling brain-it
analyzes a huge amount of details, summarizing, then taking some guesses.
Here are things you feel as emotions.
2. Thinking
brain-normally it analyzes a little number of details and gives specific
inferences.
When you are speaking
with someone you can control your words, and sentences safely. Here you use the
thinking brain. It means words are images from thoughts.
As an example: You think
accordingly, A client comes to your office. You have to speak with him. However
your thoughts about a client, you can use selected specific words safely and
smoothly. If the client doesn’t like to hear you, you may get angry. It does
not matter how your anger level is, you can’t release your anger with him. You
don’t release angry words but your vocal tone and body language may show your
anger. Body language and vocal tone tell your emotions.
In this situation, you have
to control not only words but also body language and vocal tone.
Everyone naturally can
read body language. This is a fantastic skill.
In the stone age, one
man came near another; humans were able to read body language unless they lose
their lives. You are living now in a good civilization. So now you are
concerning that body language is an unnecessary thing. You would not lose
your life like in the stone age.
If you learn to read
someone you can find new information about them. You can know what is not
spoken.
You may be able to
listen to someone’s tone and tell their feelings.
When someone tells
pleasantly you understand he is in a happy mood.
When in an angry mood you understand he is in an angry mood.
What kind of attitudes/gestures do you use to read?
1. Facial expressions
Think for a second,
about how many ideas a person can express with a facial expression.
A smile can indicate
approval or happiness .what about Charlie Chaplin's smile and Adolf Hitler’s
smile? Charlie’s smile gives us a jocular taste. Hitler gives us a dangerous
taste. In the above two situations, a smile is a smile but the meaning is not
equal.
Anger can signify
displeasure or unhappiness. Body language experts can tell you're true
feelings.
Facial expressions that
can be expressed.
Happiness/ pleasant
Sadness
Anger
Amazing
Disgusting
Displeasure/ unpleasant
Haughtiness
Fear
Confusion
Desire
Excitement
2. Eyes
Eyes are doors to the
heart. One of the most potent elements in body language is eye behavior. In our
normal conversation, each eye contact lasts only for about a second.
Body language experts
just look at your eyes and say you are falsifying.
When you think about the
future your eyes move automatically upper left.
Weak personality with
people can’t look at directly.
Who has a strong
personality, he can. Here things change a little sometimes.
I don’t tell you more
about it here. I explain better each part separately.
3. Other expressions
The whole body is a
mirror for body language.
So it includes movements
of hands, legs, neck, face, spine, shoulders, eyes, sitting style, sleeping
style, and standing up style.
Body language reveals
secrets. According to your job, you may have to deal with customers every day.
If you can read body
language it will be a great advantage. Also, you use your conversation with
body language. Customers can understand you well.
If you love to read
others you have to practice. You also have the skill naturally but you didn’t
use it for a long time.
In the beginning stage,
you give attention to words, vocal tone, and attitudes. See their attitudes
safely.
If you don’t see others
safely, they become too embarrassed. In begging stage you make your attention
to their faces.it calls micro-expressions.
After you can make
attention not only to faces but also to everybody's movements smoothly.
You can listen to their
emotions that they don’t tell.
You can see patterns in
body language.
For example,
When you are speaking
with someone if their hands are in your pocket or behind him, it depicts the
disbelieve you. If hands are outstretched or especially show his hands toward
you, it presents he believes you more.
When someone (A male)
enters an unfamiliar place look at him. He is walking slowly; he is wearing a tie
and always touches it. If a woman, she is also walking slowly, her hands are
crossed.
This pattern calls
barrier signals.
If you are a teacher you
may need this skill.
When students want a
break they don’t tell. If you can know that give a break before they ask.
Body language experts in
airports and casinos are always looking at you through CCTV. If it comes to a
crime they will stop it before happen.
I will offer a piece of
great knowledge to use practically throughout your life.
Body language applications
Reveal her/ his secrets
and purposes.
Improve your social
appearance in good
Grow your business.
Make deep connections
with customers.
Understand customers
well.
Know others’
emotions and feelings.
Find other’s
personalities are weak or strong.
Understand her / his
love that is unspoken.
Strengthen your
partnerships, your love.
Stop crimes revealing
false and true
You now understood that applications are
limitless
Conclusion
You can use body
language in real life because it is a practical theory. Gestures are more
powerful than 1000 words. In communication, you use less than 10% of words and
more than 90 % of another system. It calls body language.
Hundreds of thousands
of limitless applications in real life everywhere. Using it makes you a greater
character in society.
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